hai mama's day~!
buffet at vienna with baby and family and grandparents yesterday..
no peektures!
movie Thor after that
okok la :D
only baby sleeping like more than half the show? ;x exposed! muahahaha
didnt watch the voting thing ytd lol no interest
hmm but i got 1 thinking; maybe everyone should support papaya cause the government side has been growing Singapore well.. like crime rate, several rules and laws. ppl may not fully understand how difficult to keep a country/ area going
i not sure about all this rah so nvm teehee!
den at night keep waking up!! :@
had 3 dreams (i rmb) ~
first one was mainly on one of my old close frens but now no longer contact le :(
second one :@ is my boy boy :( when we go up bus, he sit down at a seat near the door den got 1 duno who girl (SMALL SIZED) sit beside him. and then i saded and just walk further away to the other side of the door area stand. after awhile i go back. den saw her lying in my bf's arms!!! he also just as if she is his gf like that! v sad hor! den i bth ask her excuse me can u give up the seat or smth. she refused and continued to duno wad my baby. den i shouted at her to please stand up :O after that when i sat down beside him, he didnt conffront me or anything when i :(. eventually i cried lol and woke up crying :@
third one :@ i was at a slimy sluggy creatures weird place. den aiya long story short. i saw my MAMA got eaten by a weird creature with my naked eyes! den still come out and pui her handbag! :( i woke up screaming lol :@
oh i rmb got another dream.. i only rmb me keep running here and there forget do wad le
hais..
sleep from 12+ to 845am so difficult MEH
still got wake up once i felt like vomitting.. den i tried to stop it don wan to damage my system. keep swallowing saliva and squat head down :( sianz buffet eat too much nonsense ;x
wake up from all these sheet until i don dare to sleep riao.. tired!
next week baby starts working. but cannot same place as me~~~ YET. teehee hope faster faster faster!
why i cannot control myself on food intake?
____________________________________________________________________
Is Fighting Fair?
by Michael Webb
If your child came to you and asked if she could have a fight with
her friend down the street would you tell her "sure, just make sure
it is a fair fight"? If Iraq and Iran are fighting, do you think
it is good as long as they are "fighting fair"?
Most people would say that they should try to talk over their
differences and peacefully negotiate instead. So why do so many
people say it is ok for couples to fight as long as they have a
fair fight? That certainly sends the wrong message even though they
might be using the word "fight" in a different way. We should be
encouraging couples to negotiate instead of fight.
So, here are some points for negotiating a problem in your
relationship.
# Wait until your temper is in control. If necessary, exercise,
take a walk, work in the garden or do something that will help
relieve the tension.
# Schedule a time and a place for the "peace talks" to take place.
Make sure you have enough uninterrupted time to work through the
issue. Pick a location that is peaceful and without distractions.
Some people like to go to a restaurant or public place so they will
be forced to not yell.
# Discuss the issue at hand. Don't wait until you have five or ten
things that are upsetting you before you schedule a talk.
# The purposes of negotiations aren't to have your mate believe
just as you do, but for them to understand your beliefs and
feelings. People are different and that can be a good thing.
# Use "I" sentences to explain how you feel. For example "I feel
hurt and neglected when you spend all Sunday with your golf
buddies" instead of saying "you are a bad husband for always
playing golf and ignoring me."
# Unlike fighting, in negotiations, no side has to come out "the
winner." Both of you will win with deeper understanding and
compassion for each other.
# Sometimes it is wise to compromise but other times it can cause
resentment. Don't ask your sweetheart to give up golf just because
he isn't spending enough time with you. Cut back, yes. Give up, no.
# If you find it helpful, write out your peace treaty and sign it.
_______________________________________________________________________________________________
kk post finish lol D:
