♥ Thursday, March 31, 2011 ♥
HugMeTight | 4:36 PM ♥
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hais back to square one again...
not the first time already :( hais..
since my baby is lucky and happy there, i should try be happy for him ba..
and stop hais-ing
lol
but really,
HAIS...
HugMeTight | 4:23 PM ♥
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1: Space.
Give each other some space. Don't be totally consumed by each other. You don't have to spend every single moment with each other to have a long-lasting relationship. Quality, not quantity.
2: Care.
Care for each other, and make it obvious. No one likes being in a relationship with a block of wood.
Don't keep your partner guessing about your feelings. Don't be shy to show concern.
3: Communication.
Communication is vital in healthy relationships. Handle misunderstandings with maturity.
Prolonged cold wars will not aid the situation. Talk things out and solve the issues quickly.
4: Gentlemen.
Guys, be a gentlemen. Pull out her chair for her, open doors, stand behind her while going up an escalator, offer to hold her things if they are too heavy (not handbags, please), offer to pay on the first date (it's always okay to go dutch after that). I know paying is a sensitive issue, do it this way: Whoever asks, pays. Simple.
5: Don't be a bitch.
Girls, try not to throw tantrums at him as and when you like it.
Remember that he isn't responsible for your pms or i-am-fat issues. Give him a break.
6: Respect.
Try not to embarrass your significant other in front of other people. It is not classy and loving.
7: Be affectionate.
And I do not mean having sex at the train station on Valentines day. No, that is too extreme.
Give your boyfriend/girlfriend warm hugs.
8: Be alert.
Notice how he/she treats the people around him/her.
It could be a sign if he/she is acting different around you or whether he/she is a keeper.
9: Love doesn't need to be costly.
Come up with cheap, fun dates.
I like going to the beach, supermarket, cooking dinner together etc. Bring a dvd over, cuddle on the couch and watch it with her. Make your own nachos and popcorn.
10: Mature together.
Forgive Each Other. When serious issues arise, people can hurt each other really badly. It's never fun to be the person who gets hurt, but being able to forgive your partner and move on after you've been wronged is essential to a healthy relationship. Don't hide a secret grudge or continue to berate your partner long after the incident that caused your pain. Instead, be willing to forgive and move on.
HugMeTight | 3:07 PM ♥
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HugMeTight | 9:45 AM ♥
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:D
"
To Have and To Hold
by Michael Webb
When our son was a baby he would sometimes start crying for no
apparent reason. We check his diaper. Fine. Try to nurse or feed
him. Nope. See if his gums hurt. They're fine. Take off or put on
clothes. Doesn't matter. Pick him up and hold him. That's the
answer.
Over the past 50 years numerous studies have been made regarding
babies and human touch. Babies that are held less often tend to be
weaker and sicker. Those that receive a lot of cuddling thrive in
comparison. With premature babies, physical touch can often make
the difference between life and death. Researchers have come to the
conclusion is not just a want of a baby, it is a basic need right
up there with food.
Over the years, Athena and I have visited a nearby retirement home.
We visit with the elderly and listen to their stories. We let them
tell us about all the people in their photographs that line their
room. What lights their face up more than anything else is when I
give them a hug and hold their hand during our visit. They crave
physical contact.
I don't think the need for touch disappears when we are no longer
infants and suddenly reappears when we are aged. Too often, we
suppress that need, thinking it makes us weak or less independent.
Some people say "I don't really like to be touched or held." I
don't think they were born that way. I believe every human needs
lots of hugs and holding of hands.
One of the most common threads of all the blissful relationships I
have witnessed is the physical closeness of the couple. Two people
who realize the basic need to be held - often. I wasn't a hugging
sort of person when I married. But everything that I read and all
that I witnessed indicated that I needed to do that if I wanted a
blissful relationship. So from day one of our marriage, I gave the
formulaic hugs and kisses, not because my heart felt like it, but
because my head knew it was right. With months of frequent hugs and
cuddles with Athena I began to appreciate the warmth and closeness.
Now it is hard to pull us apart.
Hugs, holding hands and lots of cuddles. It's not just for babies
and grandparents. And for some relationships it can mean the
difference between life and death."
HugMeTight | 9:12 AM ♥
♥ Tuesday, March 29, 2011 ♥
go away la u faster disappear can
!@$%!%!@$!$
u think ppl care meh?!
(i hope not)
im trying so hard, and just when im starting to do it, u like that.
siao bo!
lol
is it attachment giving me stress or what :!%!$%!@#$$Y$#
HugMeTight | 12:54 PM ♥
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lalala otw to workplace now!!
i don wan to see u just two plus hours a day :\ half of the time u are asleep.. lol
sianz itp faster end!
zz den sch start :(
HEHEHE!!!
HugMeTight | 8:16 AM ♥
♥ Monday, March 28, 2011 ♥
:D
HugMeTight | 9:20 PM ♥
♥ Friday, March 25, 2011 ♥
MUAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
crazy ;>
HugMeTight | 4:46 PM ♥
♥ Thursday, March 24, 2011 ♥
was thinking...
tat day... say cannot make flend meh.
can roh
was thinking...
why i got no friend to try to make here :(
sho mouldy hais
HugMeTight | 11:04 AM ♥
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HEHEEHEHE :D
PRATA!
It is symptom of lack of appreciation of our own uniqueness and self worth. Each of us has something to give that no one else has.
If you cannot love yourself, you will not believe that you are loved.
Take your eyes off others and find the seeds of your jealousy, clear the old voices and experiences. Instead of wasting your time & effort to put others down, put all the energy into building your personal and emotional security. Then you will be the one others envy, and you can remember the pain and reach out to them.
Way to counter jealous freaks?
Just laugh at the ridiculous things/stuff people do when they are jealous, smile back at them and be cool about it.
Don’t have to be angry at all.. if you are angry, you fall for their “trap”.
Let them be.
No matter what you explain will be useless because these meanies have a fix mindset, going all out to bring others down.
So why waste time on them?
HugMeTight | 9:15 AM ♥
♥ Tuesday, March 22, 2011 ♥
:( 3 more years :(
:( cant wait :(
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ITP! !%$!@!%$&#& big time!
HugMeTight | 11:54 AM ♥
♥ Friday, March 18, 2011 ♥
LOOOOOOOVE KEEPS ME GOING WOO LALA~
HugMeTight | 3:41 PM ♥
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hehehe today is so far the best day of itp !
;}
not the part that baby's working somewhere else but ^^
and its 3 to 4 hours to meeting myyyyyy baby!!!
happy happy ! muahahaahhaa
HugMeTight | 3:32 PM ♥
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But.... How??
HugMeTight | 12:44 PM ♥
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:(
HugMeTight | 12:11 PM ♥
♥ Thursday, March 17, 2011 ♥
obviously you duno!
under my umbrella ella ella eh eh eh~
HugMeTight | 9:21 PM ♥
♥ Tuesday, March 15, 2011 ♥
MOI HUAN TO GHOST OVER THE SEA! :@
HugMeTight | 3:33 PM ♥
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This Is Life! ;}
HugMeTight | 11:28 AM ♥
♥ Sunday, March 13, 2011 ♥
nice ;)
HugMeTight | 9:57 AM ♥
♥ Saturday, March 12, 2011 ♥
wanted to sleep early today but zzz u totally spoilt my mood
thou im tired.... oh well x.x
why must u make me hate you at times??!
visitors? stop touching my stuff, putting them in other places
cant u just close the dam door?!
and don find stupid unreasonable excuses to say no to something ok
or to show that you are right
like what the fishes i cant be bothered
just say no lah
zzz
whatever.
bye! ;D
HugMeTight | 11:21 PM ♥
♥ Friday, March 11, 2011 ♥
Some things go smoother if unsaid, unknown, untouched ~
HugMeTight | 4:35 PM ♥
♥ Thursday, March 10, 2011 ♥
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HugMeTight | 8:30 PM ♥
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top 10 cruel things that men do to women ...
1. Having the biggest ego
Ever wondered why men hate taking directions and prefer hunting out the place on their own, even if it means 2 hours delay and waste of gas. Well, the answer is the big ego they walk around with. This was the pettiest exemplar of a man’s ego, which gets hurt at the drop of the hat and needs a massage whenever possible.
2. Living with a ‘selective memory’
They’ll not only remember the name of every cricketer and football player on the planet but will also know their scores by heart. But, the moment the deal is about remembering birthdays and anniversaries of people close to them, their brain suffers an ailment called ‘selective memory syndrome’.
3. Ogling
‘Men do stare at women’s breasts’ has been stamped as official by a world wide survey. But how we wish they knew that their drooling at the sight of a well endowed woman is cruel not only to the victim of that gaze, but also to the woman sitting beside them. Yes, they don’t miss any chance, even if it is when they are on a date!
4. Being overtly possessive
Where in the world did men get that insecurity from? (Their mother? )They blame women for being jealous but a mere mention of another man from their girl can turn them into an ever clinging magnet.
5. Taking pride in their hypocrisy
Men can’t get more cruel than this! They love hanging around with the coolest and sexiest babe in the town, but when it comes to meeting mom, it’s a ‘homely’ girl they start hunting for. You loved her dressing style and carefree attitude when she came for night-outs with you, what’s with that marriage material hunt now?
6. Showing extra care
How does it feel to take his ‘where-about’ calls every 15 minutes after you step out of the home? The care in that gesture goes out of the window and irritation takes charge. Don’t they realise that we lived safe, sound and perfectly well in this world before they came into our lives. Hope someone is listening.
7. Throwing their ‘superman’ self everywhere
Yes, it feels nice when men are around for some help. However, their ‘I-can-do-everything-under-the-sun’ attitude does more harm than good, especially when they think themselves to be exalted beings – a plumber, electrician, carpenter and a financial adviser all rolled into one.
8. Consider emotions to be crap
Women might be emotional but having a constant practical point of view, like men doesn’t, score well always. Men will become better beings for sure, if they stop making fun of sentiments and ignoring them as useless.
9. Being the friend worshippers
It is very torturing for women when men don’t learn to priorities their life post marriage. They blame her for being a clinging vine when she asks for his time, but how sane is it to have a bunch of friends in the backseat on a long-drive, which was planned to be a romantic one?
10. Being the sex monster
Undoubtedly, women love zest in bed, but it’s very cruel of men to demand their partners to play the porn star they saw in that flick last night. It’s better to let her be herself in a sexapade rather than putting her in an uncomfy situation and then blaming her for being non-cooperative.
Some are true!!
HugMeTight | 3:41 PM ♥
♥ Tuesday, March 8, 2011 ♥
boohoo...
HugMeTight | 4:13 PM ♥