♥ Monday, January 31, 2011 ♥
How to Find (or Keep) a Spouse
by Michael Webb
Back in college I had a bit of a reputation -- a reputation with
the ladies. No, it's not what you think. Because I grew up with six
sisters I seemed to know quite a bit more about women than most
guys so they would often to come to me for advice.
I went to a Christian university and many of the men were older
students and actually serious about relationships. They weren't
just looking for someone to go out with, they wanted to find a wife.
"How will I know if a woman will be a good wife and how do I go
about finding her?" was a question I received time and time again.
Here was my advice.
Don't use all your effort on trying to find yourself a woman who
will be a good wife. Instead, spend almost all your time molding
yourself into a great husband. That's the hard part. Once you are a
man who will make a great husband, finding (and keeping) a wife is
much less difficult. The same advice goes for women looking for a
husband.
It was amazing to me that men who wouldn't brush their teeth or
comb their hair were frustrated that they couldn't get women to go
out with them. Guys who had little ambition and absolutely no
fashion sense couldn't understand why God hadn't "blessed" them
with a wife. And the same goes for sour, abrupt women who complain
that either they can't keep a man or the man they already have
isn't worth keeping.
This is not to say that if you are single it is because you are
unworthy. The point is, don't worry too much about finding or
keeping someone. Take care of yourself. Learn to be patient and
forgiving. Read books, take courses and do all things possible to
make yourself the number one potential husband or wife in the
world. That's the best way to find and keep a great wife or
terrific husband. They will actually search you out.
HugMeTight | 10:12 AM ♥
♥ Saturday, January 29, 2011 ♥
It takes two hands to clap.
Imagine the conversation went like this.
A: do u noe it is very irritaring whenever u do that can u stop it
B: u say i irritating? How abt i tell u how irritated and upset i am when u do that? And can u stop it?
A: no i said before i cannot. If u cant accept then let go la
B: fine
ending? = the end.
Yes, sometimes on the inside, thoughts to talk or fight back might occur. But, always think twice or more before u speak.
If giving in or sacrifising urself is worth it, thou u may suffer, just do it.
Sometimes a win lose situation is necessary, and the one at a loss is you.
You just have to bear with it and either hope u can take ut for life, or it will get better; perhaps a win win situation.
Never get addicted to something for u might regret in future.
This is just what i personally feel is true.
Giving in may be a solution for now, but one day it has to and WILL BE solved and it wont be an issue anymore! ;p
Do love me and be addicted to me if u think we are one, baby <3
me love u many many!!
HugMeTight | 1:18 AM ♥
♥ Wednesday, January 26, 2011 ♥
finally back from work
tired tired tired!
thou played dai di and blackjack throughout work ;x
i wan to sleep but i just ate a whole lot of crap
damnnnnn FAT!!!
pig liao la ltr somebody don wan me..
so fat for wad, also cannot keep me warm ):
oh anyway my baby's sick :@
work tmr, and the next tmr, den next next tmr got project event, and next next next tmr working, school on next next next next tmr, den next next next next next tmr work, den.. cny lo!!
o lala buais
HugMeTight | 11:05 PM ♥
♥ Tuesday, January 25, 2011 ♥
Everytime I hear u praising and wow-ing over those girls.. i feel inferior to you ):
but i know its their own effort put in
unlike me ;/
it is supposed to be a form of motivation
but..
why doesnt it work for me? ~.~
it just means : too bad for me
HugMeTight | 5:06 PM ♥
♥ Friday, January 21, 2011 ♥
“ If I could explain love in one word, it would have to be trust. Trust that he doesn’t cheat on you, trust that he doesn’t lie to you, trust that he really likes you, trust that he will always be there for you, trust that he can go to a party and not get high or drunk, trust that you don’t have to worry about him breaking up with you the second you wake up, trust that he will stick up for you, trust that he will never fall in love with another, trust that he won’t just get sick of you, and trust that he wants you like you want him. "
;O
think my trust nt there yet hehe ):
but still, <3!
HugMeTight | 11:03 AM ♥
♥ Tuesday, January 11, 2011 ♥
after some research...
(sometimes u need to put in effort to know the other party better ^^)
1: addict
2: im not enough
3: looking for excitement cant get
4: watch a little fantasy than unfaithful
5: just enjoy
6: no self control
7: don appreciate
8: want more
9: not with them
10: in their genes
11: likes to look at dirty chicks
12: form of entertainment
13: need to get rid of the 'feeling'
put yourself in others' shoes
anyway,
i have to get used to it? ;D
give and take, i'll give (:
cannot feel insecure and unsure abt our r/s
lets do it tgt next time okie? <3
HugMeTight | 4:27 PM ♥
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Halp halp`~
HugMeTight | 4:25 PM ♥
♥ Monday, January 10, 2011 ♥
I wish i didnt see ~
HugMeTight | 12:07 PM ♥
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hello miss pig. its better den that right... or , actually it makes no difference. life is tough ;/
point to note: if u cant change it, accept it; change urself instead of others. life may be better this way ;D
alr got smth so good, what's more to ask for? ;>
HugMeTight | 9:40 AM ♥
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GGET OUT OF MY HEAD LA U @!$@!$%@!%
HugMeTight | 9:24 AM ♥
♥ Thursday, January 6, 2011 ♥
The Secret of My Success
by Michael Webb
I constantly get calls, letters and emails from people who wonder
how I could possibly do all the romantic things I write about on my
website, in my books and in my various newsletters.
Many want to know how they can be more romantic or get their
significant other to be more caring and affectionate.
Do you want to know my secret?
My secret is Athena. If any of you ever met her, you would realize
that it would be difficult to NOT be loving and romantic around her.
There are quite a few traits that make me want to treat Athena like
the treasure she is. In this essay, I'll discuss one of the
reasons she is so easy to love and pamper. Later on I'll share
more.
Not a Nagger
The other day Athena saw my bath towel on the middle of our bedroom
floor. She said "you might want to hang up your towel or it won't
dry out in time for your shower tomorrow." When my clothes pile up
outside of the hamper, she sweetly says "it would really help me
out a lot if you put your dirty clothes in the hamper." She was
exhausted one morning and when Ashton (then five months old) began
to stir. She turned over to me and asked if I wanted to "get up and
have a little morning playtime with Ashton". That was a much nicer
way of asking me to help her out than saying "Why am I the one who
always gets up early to take care of YOUR son. I think it is YOUR
turn for a change."
Athena always thinks of nice ways to ask me to help out or to stop
doing something irritating. It is far more effective than if she
nagged about it.
In most relationships a polite and sincere request gets much
greater results than if you yell, nag or complain. While some men
and women do respond to incessant nagging, they do so to get you to
shut up and are resentful for the way you behaved.
I can't take credit for being a super romantic. Athena's kindness,
gentleness and thoughtfulness made me this way.
HugMeTight | 8:41 PM ♥
♥ Monday, January 3, 2011 ♥
Prawn Crackers Thread.
True? Untrue? Hehe tell me about it!
HugMeTight | 9:35 PM ♥
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lalaalala~
HugMeTight | 9:45 AM ♥
♥ Saturday, January 1, 2011 ♥
sianzz...
oo many ppl
zz
how..
need to sleep but don feel like sleeping
):
no use being upset over small matter or smth that alr happen hoh. oh man ;O
HugMeTight | 3:00 AM ♥
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hmm.. new year resolution??
1) last with my baby jun kee ^^
2) school results and all smooth and manageable i hope ;/ (best no nid to study hehhe)
3) money no problem! same for my baby ;>
4) beach body? nah.. i should just start with.. watch my figure ;/
5) pass my driving first try!
6) don be so noisy
7) hmm...
shopping time! ^^
HugMeTight | 2:01 AM ♥
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its 2011!!
hope the world doesnt end in 2012 ):
i wan to be with baby huan ;p
looking forward to the day (no idea when)
- i can ton baby hse/outside
- overseas
- go out till later -.-
oh wells. (:
HugMeTight | 1:48 AM ♥